It is clear that communication is important when “saving a marriage”. The concept of proper communication is always applicable for marriage and significantly controls on whether you being able to save a marriage.
Some can recall the famous saying of Anthony Robbins which refers to improving the quality of life as well as the importance of communication in it. According to Anthony Robbins the way you communicate, influence the quality of life you are able to lead.
This concept works always works in every aspect of our life including our well being. Here we also include well being as it depends on quality of communication you have with yourself.
You cannot just expect a particular type of behavior from your spouse in case you really want to save your marriage from divorce. Communication always plays a significant role in anybody’s life.
You might think how communication is so significant in a married life. The basic reason is that marriage is one form of team work between two people and any task cannot be completed if both are not cooperating with each other. Beside that each person has his or her own separate needs and if those remain unsatisfied then resentment starts developing.
You will have to develop the habit of assuming or guessing needs of your spouse. Still if the marriage gets into trouble, it could be you have not fully understood your spouse’s needs.
In marriage both partners have their individual specifications related to their needs and most often they do not express those needs. The primary reason why they do not express their needs is that they themselves are not properly conscious about the exact things they really want.
Main reason why arguments or disputes start in a marriage is because one partner does not try to understand what his or her spouse exactly wants or needs. Hence, a gap of proper communication arises.
If you start looking at what your partner wants, “saving a marriage” could be easy for you. So by properly addressing the particular thing whatever your spouse desires, you give yourself a chance to save your marriage. This way you can easily able to improve your relation and make the marriage better as you exactly wanted it to be. The path will certainly be difficult but with proper focus you will be able to move in the right direction.
To lead a successful relationship couples should carefully monitor what their spouse likes and dislikes and should work accordingly to help and fulfill those specific needs without actually expecting something in return. Such attitudes will let each partner to get a lot more than he or she had actually expected from the other person.
You will have to also understand the fact that communication does not necessarily always mean talking, according to many experts almost ninety percent of communication we have is most of the time non-verbal. Thus the non-verbal communication can also help you “save your marriage“. It will be similar to showing enough affection and love towards your spouse.